Sunday, May 31, 2009
Cows in Muskegons
Thursday, May 28, 2009
A Little Bit About Madelynn Mai
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
An Exciting Weekend!
Even Brooke, my great neice, loved the wagon. She played in it a lot on Monday.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Mark Schultz Concert
More updates coming later tonight. :)
Friday, May 22, 2009
The Eye Doctor...and some pictures
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Look Mom, No Hands!!!!
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Our new water table and other news...
Aiden, Madelynn, and Malachi enjoying the watertable together. Imagine that...they were sharing! :)
The boys filling up the water table again. They kept dumping all the water so we needed to fill it up multiple times.
Aiden waiting for Samantha, their cousin, to spray him. He kept lifting his shirt so she could spray his belly.
Aiden and Madelynn getting sprayed by their cousin, Samantha.
Monday, May 18, 2009
Say a little prayer....
I hope to have some pictures too...
Saturday, May 16, 2009
New words and signs
Anyways, I've calmed down a bit about Malachi's evaluation. I'm still upset but I'm beginning to process things. A big thanks to my friend Chris who called the other night and let me cry my eyes out. She has experience with these types of things and was a huge help for me. Chris, I wouldn't be at this point if it weren't for you! Thanks also to the other people who have sent me kind words. It's great and comforting knowing that we have so many people out there who love us and are willing to offer any help they can. I love you all!
In other news, Josh and I have decided to start teaching the kids (and ourselves) some basic sign language to help them communitcate their needs until the speech therapy kicks in and they begin talking a ton more. We started with 'more' because it was one that I already knew the sign for. Besides that it allows the kids to ask for more milk, food, or whatever else. Aiden picked it up with a few hours yesterday evening. Madelynn began using it a bit later and was consistantly using it today. Malachi didn't take to it and although it was frustrating for all of us, we kept trying. He suprised us tonight at dinner and made the sign for 'more' and then pointed to the cantelope we were having with dinner. He already had some on his plate but OF COURSE we gave him more because we were so proud of him! He has also been using three news words the past few days. They are 'up', 'arm', and 'house'. I'm still concerned about him and have lots of anxiety about his evaluation on this coming Tuesday, but I continue to be proud of him and pray that he'll make greater improvements with additional help.
Now all I have to do is find a website or book that provides us with more signs to teach the kids! Hopefully I'll have more to post tomorrow and I'll try to through in some fun pictures of the kids. Isn't that what you really want to see on this blog????? :)
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Early On evaluations
Keep in mind that the kids are a few days away from 31 months. All results are listed in months.
Aiden: Aiden is the most advanced of all three just as we had expected.
fm: 33-36
gm: 30-33
cog: 33-36
com: 27-30
se: 33-36
shc: 32-36
Aiden's speech is his lowest area and that is mainly because he's not being challenged to up his level of comprehension and speech because Malachi and Madelynn's speech levels are lower than his. The recommendation is to provide more interactions with other kids besides his siblings. We are going to be sure to set up several playdates with our friends and we'll also be participating in playdates arranged with Lenawee's Child during the summer months.
They also did a hearing screening on Aiden. Not a normal test like Malachi has done. It just tests the functioning of the parts of the ear. His left ear didn't pass so they said they'd check it again in a few weeks. I chose NOT to wait and made him an appointment for a normal hearing test and an ENT appointment with the same doctor that has handled Malachi's hearing issues. This appointment is June 10th so more to come on that.
Madelynn: Maddie did well in most areas. Her lowest area is speech which is why we wanted her evaluated. It wasn't a suprise to us. We will sign a consent form next Tuesday when we meet to review the reports. Then she'll get an more indepth speech evaluation done. Speech will start some time this summer if she qualifies, which I'm sure she will. The only hang up may be that Early On thins their schedule during the summer so we may have to go through our insurance and to a speech clinic to get her the services she needs more frequently. I want her to catch up so we'll do whatever is needed. Here are her scores...
fm: 33-36
gm: 30-36
cog: 33-36
se: 33-36
shc: 30-36
com: This was broken into two parts because they varied. Expressive: 18-21 months and Receptive: 24-27 months. Her understanding of speech is better than what she's able to produce herself.
Maddie had the same hearing test as Aiden with the same results. She will join him on June 10th.
Malachi: Where do I even begin??? First let me say that the first time I saw him when they put him in my arms at the hospital, I had an uneasy feeling. I just knew that something wasn't right. First it was reflux, then problems with his circumcision (because he refluxed during the surgery), then he kept failing his carseat test, then more reflux issues, an upper GI, difficult feeding, then t moved on to gross motor development, but nothing else. He didn't respond to us or his siblings, he played by himself, he was just different. No one believed me. We always got the "you are just overwhelmed because you have triplets, nothing is wrong with him, you can't compare him to his siblings" and more along those lines. But still, every time I looked at him, I knew there was something that I just couldn't put my finger on it. Finally at his 1 year appointment, I convinced the doctor that something wasn't right and I didn't think he was hearing. She send us to the Toledo Children's Hospital and sure enough, he failed his hearing test miserably! We went to the ENT and a few weeks later, he got tubes. Instantly he could hear. So, he starts to hear, starts babbling, eventually moves on to real words. At 31 months he has a vocabulary of about 20 words. Josh and I are thrilled with his improvements, but knew his speech was still "a bit" behind...or so we thought! Here's where my anger and tears form...
THE 13 MONTHS I TRIED TO CONVINCE THE WORLD THAT MY BABY WASN'T RIGHT PUT HIM BEHIND 16 MONTHS!!!!!
My son's speech is at a 15 1/2 - 18 month level because no one would listen to me. Not only that, but his other skills are delayed too. Here are his scores...
fm: 24-27
gm: 30-36
cog: 24-27
com: 15 1/2-18
se: 24-30
shc: 27-30
Malachi didn't have his hearing tested because he was just checked at the ENT on April 8th. Both tubes are out and he's hearing in normal range. :)
We had out choice of what to do next for evaluations, just speech which he is VERY delayed in or do a 'team evaluation' which covers Occupational Therapy, Physical Therapy, Speech, and Pyschologist to test his cognitive levels. We've chosen the team approach so that Malachi can recieve ALL the services that he needs to catch up. His appointment is Next Tuesday, May 19th. This is really fast, as they had a cancelation. Normally it takes up to a month or more to get this type of appointment! At least that is a plus that we're getting in quickly!
So, here's my thoughts and feelings. I'm thrilled with Aiden's abilities and Maddie's too. She'll most likely get speech which is what I expected. I'm truly disappointed with Malachi's results. It was a real slap in the face for me because I didn't expect him to be low across the board. I'm a teacher. I know the services available and how much they can help. I know the speech that teachers and service providers give to parents. I know all that, but I'm still pissed off! He's my baby. I want him to be perfect but he's presented with another problem. I feel like the world is pooping on my son and don't know what he or I ever did to deserve all of this. I don't handle things like this well at all. I look up to people who have children with many more difficulties than my own, but still I feel like someone is out to get my little boy. I believe he'll be fine after he recieves the services. Hopefully he won't need them when he gets in school. If he does, we'll deal with it. I certainly want whats best for him, but how/when do I reach the point when I can look at him and not see him as broken?
Feel free to leave comments asking any questions if you have them or you can email me.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Mother's Day 2009
Mother's day this year was celebrated at our house with a small cookout with my sisters, mom, and mother-in-law and their families. We had so much fun and a ton of food! It was a relaxing day of chatting, eating, playing games, and playing with the kids. I couldn't ask for a better day!
I didn't get any pictures of the kids and me together because I'm behind the camera nearly 100% of the time, but I did get a few of the kids that I LOVE.
Aiden Cooper
The first picture shows him trying to be cute and do something he's not supposed to. The second shows him after I caught him. He's been such a mommy's boy lately with huge anxieties when I'm not close enough for him to touch. I sure hope this phase doesn't last long. I love my happy Aiden Cooper and I don't like to see him so sad and upset.
Malachi James
The first shows Malachi after attempting to chew on sticks and eating sand from the sand box. The kid will eat anything! We are constantly telling him, "NO EAT". He usually smiles and does it anyways. Some day he'll realize how gross it is. Malachi got me a mother's day card that says "Mom, you've always given me good and sensible advice...and believe me, one of these days I'm gonna use it!" Some day he'll thank me for telling him not to eat the things he does. :)
Madelynn Mai
My little Diva! She walked around all day with her new fairy skirts from Aunt Janet and sun glasses from my nephew. She owned the world today! There was no stopping her. :) The second pictures shows Maddie's determination. She was
playing in the sandbox all by herself. She was content,
serious, and didn't even know I snapped this picture.
Stay tuned for another update on Tuesday. We are having Early On come out and evaluate the kids for speech. More to come.
Friday, May 8, 2009
Happy 30th Birthday Josh!
Yesterday was Josh's 30th birthday. He finally made it into the 30's and can't make fun of me for not being in the 20's anymore. For those of you who don't know, I turned 30 in February and Josh reminded me whenever he could that I was in a different decade than he was! Anyways, we had a famly dinner at Applebee's to celebrate the day. I made the waitstaff sing to him (for the kids of course). :) The kids love it when they clap and sing, but I'm not so sure they were thrilled with it that up close. We all had a great time!
Now for some pictures. The ones of Josh and Malachi didn't turn out so well but I got cute ones of Madelynn and Aiden.
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
The First Dentist Appointment!
Madelynn also did a fabulous job! She had no hesitations at all. She let our dental hygentist look at her teeth and even clean them a little bit. She has some staining on the back side of her bottom front teeth so our dental hygenist brushed them a little bit. Maddie didn't mind at all and loved the bubble gum flavor tooth paste. Unfortunately the staining didn't come off, but Maddie will have a real dental visit in November and we'll try some more scrubbing to remove it. We didn't want to tramatize her on the very first visit.
Aiden didn't like the visit at all. He was perfectly happy watching but wanted nothing to do with the chair or anything else. We'll try again in November. Each of the kids got a brand new tooth brush and a sticker so they were happy in the end. We all go back again in November for real visits and hopefully Aiden will be more interested. Next time I'll take his favorite blanket!
Monday, May 4, 2009
A day at the zoo
Aiden was all about the snakes! He loved the reptile house and kept pointing to the snakes saying, "nake". It was very cute. Maddie was into the fish just like her daddy. It's amazing how much the two are alike...scary sometimes. I can imagine that she'll be the one going fishing with him all the time. :) I did manage to get a few pictures. The first one is of the kids with daddy. Maddie and Josh in the back. Malachi (green) and Aiden (blue) in the front. The other three are of the kids on the way home. They were exhausted.
Malachi
Aiden
Madelynn
Saturday, May 2, 2009
The Beginning...
Finally after over another year, I was sent to a fertility doctor. He did one ultrasound and determined that I had Polycystic Ovarian Syndrom, which meant that I couldn't/didn't ovulate. I didn't produce eggs large enough to fight their way through the tough layer on my overies. The doctor had me do the Follistum Pen. This was a series of shots that I had to give myself (or be given by Josh) to make my eggs grow. It involved shots and ultrasounds for 10-12 days and then once it was determined that I had the right amount of good sized eggs, I was given another shot of a hormone to make me ovulate. I did two rounds of this. The first one felt like something was actually happening. I was in tremendous pain! It was the first time in 26 years that my body had ovulated! Unfortunately, it didn't work. I was left with disappointment again. After a month break to clean out my overies, I did a second round. I felt nothing! This was right around the time of my 27th birthday. I remembering answering Josh's question of what I wanted for my birthday with, "all I want is a baby". That year I got a great digital camera from him. A few days after my birthday I began to spot around the time I should be getting my regular period. I didn't think anything of it because I was convinced that this round was unsuccessful. On March 7, 2006 I went in for a blood test to see what was up. I got the call around 4pm that I was indeed pregnant! I had gotten what I wanted for my birthday...just a few days late.
A week later I was in for an ultrasound where the doctor found not one, not two, but three little beans! Josh and I laughed all the way home! We couldn't believe what we had just heard!
My pregnancy was great for the most part. I experienced BAD morning (all day) sickness for the first 16 weeks! I couldn't even hold down water which resulted in a loss of 19 pounds. Then one day it stopped! Hurray!!! I only had one overnight visit to the hospital for observation and one er visit. I made it (easily) to my scheduled C-section on October 18, 2006 at 36 weeks, 1 day. Our babies were born close to 1:00pm. Malachi James at 12:56pm (6lbs, 10oz), Madelynn Mai also at 12:56pm (5lbs, 10oz), and Aiden Cooper at 12:57pm (6lbs, 3oz). All were healthy and doing very well. They spent 20 hours in the NICU because of maintaining their blood sugar levels and then moved to my room and the 'normal' nursery. We all came home on their 4th day of life. We consider ourselves to be very blessed to have perfect little babies with no medical complications, which is fairly rare for triplets.
Now my babies are 2 1/2 years old! Boy, has time flown by....
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